Feedback from last weeks Newsletter…
Tuesday, June 5th, 2007Last week, we shared a success tip in our weekly Newsletter which came from Andrew May. We had quite a lot of interesting comments which you can find below.
Enjoy the read.
Andrew is the founder of Good Health Solutions – Australia’s largest corporate health and wellbeing consultancy, employing over 100 full-time staff members. In addition, Andrew has worked as the physical performance manager for the Australian cricket team as well as a performance advisor to the Sydney Swans. Now describing himself as a reformed workaholic, Andrew has some interesting advice that comes directly from his chapter in Secrets of Great Success Coaches Exposed! Read below.
Why do you recommend that people should slow down their lives?
We live in a world that teaches us that faster is better. Speed is the new ‘king’ and our lives are measured in bits and bytes, dissected into milliseconds and micro detail. Is it any wonder our health, relationships, sex lives and performance eventually start to suffer? While we do need to regularly shove the throttle into turbo drive and plough through those ‘to do’ lists, it is equally important to spend time in cruise mode, or time just going slow! The challenge is that we have all been conditioned to think that slow is evil. Nothing could be further from the truth.
My challenge for you is to build set periods of ‘slow’ into your week. Try tai chi, slow walks with your dog, staying in bed reading the paper without feeling guilty, slow food, or slow sex (according to James Gleick, author of Faster, the average time we spend making love in our fast-moving society is four minutes). Take some time to slow down and enjoy your life!
Furthermore, the latest psychology research advises that people take a minimum of two to three weeks holiday every year to fully recover. So bury the laptop, turn off your phone and take a break!
Here are seven holiday tips to renew, refresh, and recharge:
Invest time in planning your break – so many people plan their working day to the last second but fail to give any thought to their time off.
Leave your work in the office – don’t take reports or proposals to finish on your summer break by the beach. Be disciplined and leave work in the office. Besides, is the world really going to end if you don’t do that extra board report right now?
Don’t fully load your holiday diary like an average working week – adrenaline junkies are notorious for getting back from a week’s holiday totally stuffed (physically and mentally) and in need of a proper relaxing holiday. Don’t spend every waking moment doing things, leave some margin and space to just chill and have time out.
Bury the laptop – even though you’re going to be regularly tempted, don’t get sucked towards the evil screen. Leave your laptop in the office or in a cupboard in your house. You might even find you are addicted to your laptop, mobile and PDA. If you think I’m talking to you right now, try weaning yourself off them for a week (seriously!).
Try something new – try and learn something or do something totally new to give your brain a rest from the normal day-to-day grind. Go windsurfing, paddle a kayak, recite some phrases in French, try a different type of yoga class or book in for a relaxing massage.
Get up at the same time every day – a big trap on holidays is the circadian rhythm ‘free running cycle’. You find you go to bed a little bit later each night and by the end of your break you’re going to bed at midnight or one in the morning and not getting up until late morning. Try to go to bed and get out of bed at your usual times. If you are sleep deprived, reward yourself by going to bed an hour earlier each night or having an afternoon siesta.
Learn to relax – as a reformed workaholic, I honestly had to learn to relax. I can remember watching movies and at the same time thinking (sometimes even writing) about unfinished ‘to do’ lists. Set up boundaries that force you to relax and try doing something else a little bit new in this day and age – turn off your mobile phone!
Here are some comments which came in response to this success tip.
Pamela Baker-Hoang
I couldn’t agree more as I am guilty of doing some of those things when I really should be winding down. Trying to do 2 or 3 things at once is counter productive so enjoy your R&R time as you have earnt it. Relax with that thought.
PS:Thanks for your tips Dale and associates.
Lawrence Rausim
I agree very much with the success tips for this week. I feel guilty if I have an off day and I have to go for some schedule meeting because I feel I missing out on information.
Tracey Maclean
OMG Andrew is talking about me! I felt confused even thinking about relaxing however, one difference for me is that I love what I do so its not too much of a chore. OK I’m up for the test of taking on something new.
Chi Le
Totally agree with the ideas to ‘totally switch off’. You will have to design a ‘relaxing plan and activities’ to replace your normal working schedule or else you will still be working while you are not in your formal offices.









